Rosheka’s Story
Before the coach… there was the woman who survived
Before I became a coach, I was a woman searching for answers.
Not just in my career — but in my soul.
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I grew up in a world where survival came first, and emotions came last.
Where silence often felt safer than being seen.
And where the deep ache for something more was always pushed aside by duty, expectation, or fear.
But even then… I knew.
I knew I was meant for more than just surviving.

Before I Had Words
The Silence That Shaped Me
I didn’t know the words for grief.
I didn’t know how to name fear.
I just knew my body tightened…
and that silence was safer than being seen.​
I was born in a world where emotions weren’t welcomed —
and being “a good girl” meant being quiet, helpful, and invisible.
But inside, a different truth was growing —
a quiet ache that whispered:
“You were made for more than surviving.”​
Long before I became a coach,
I was the child who watched the world in silence,
carrying questions no one could answer…
and pain no one could see.​
This is the part of my story most never hear.
The part where my journey didn’t start with success —
but with stillness, struggle, and soul.​
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If this part of my story speaks to a part of you… I see you.
Where My Healing Began

I didn’t know I was allowed to want more.
But the ache never left.
Even when I followed the rules.
Even when I did all the “right” things.
Even when I built a life that looked good on the outside.
Something inside still whispered,
“There has to be more than this.”
I was working, mothering, functioning…
But I wasn’t really living.
I felt invisible in my own life.
Not broken. Just… disconnected from who I really was.
And that’s when the real work began —
Not fixing myself…
But finally meeting myself.
The adult me…
Began listening to the girl who never had a voice.
Began giving her permission to feel, to rest, to explore.
To want something more than just making it through the day.
This wasn’t a leap.
It was a slow, sacred return to the truth I’d buried long ago:
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“You’re allowed to want a life that feels like yours.”
If any part of my story spoke to a part of you… I’d love to connect.